Directed by: Glenn Ficarra, John Requa
Starring: Steve Carell, Ryan Gosling, Emma Stone
Apparently it’s horrible wife week on In The Queue Reviews. In the very first scene of Crazy, Stupid, Love, Emily Weaver (Julianne Moore) informs her husband of 25 years, Cal (Steve Carell) that she slept with a co-worker and wants a divorce. Not good wife behavior.
How has Cal’s husband behavior been? Not bad, but not great either. He wears sneakers with his slacks, dress shirts and suit jacket to a nice dinner with his wife. He doesn’t seem to be interested in understanding why she’s unhappy, and is ready to move out and sign divorce papers without a fuss. In short, he seems to have given up on…well, every hope of being attractive.
Someone is attracted to him, though. There’s only two problems. One, she’s the 17-year-old babysitter of the Weaver kids. Two, 8th grader Robbie Weaver (Jonah Bobo) is madly in love with her and isn’t afraid to let her (and anyone else without shouting distance…with the exception of his parents) know it. And saying Robbie is philosophical beyond his years is like saying Steven Spielberg directed a couple good movies.
To further reinforce Cal hasn’t got a clue, he attempts to break into the singles scene at a trendy watering hole where he broadcasts his romantic woes to anyone within bemoaning distance. Jacob (Ryan Gosling), the suave and sexy local pick-up artist takes pity on the shell of a man Cal has become. With Jacob’s coaching, Cal learns to wear the right suit size, get a nice haircut and get women to leave the bar with him. Problem solved, right?
The refreshing thing about Crazy, Stupid, Love is that it’s not all that predictable. Sure, some things have to happen. Cal has to succeed at being a suave guy who can score with the ladies. Jacob has to encounter that one woman who is so much better than a string of one night stands. However, every time you think the storyline is going to fall into the same old summer blockbuster shtick, the plot gets a little twist.
Crazy, Stupid, Love is truly a drama dressed up as a comedy. The funny scenes are REALLY funny – generally in a witty way without too much slapstick (although the point where all the real and assumed love connections collapse involves fisticuffs among four grown men). It is a good thing I never encountered anything like Robbie’s tirade about how the ‘A’ in The Scarlet Letter should stand for ‘assholes’ rather than ‘adulterer’ when I was teaching 8th grade English because I probably would have found it difficult to punish the kid for such an astute observation.
However, the scenes that show how much serious relationships hinge on basic acts of vulnerability, nurturing and validation can be extremely poignant. The characters don’t always know what they want or what will make them happy. They’re struggling, relatable people with more depth than you typically see on the silver screen.
If you:
- Hated The Scarlet Letter
- Understand that a serious, long-term relationship can be kind of like caring for your lawn and landscaping
- Understand the pursuit of romantic love does make people act like assholes sometime
Put it in the queue!
However, if you:
- Think it’s OK to wear New Balance sneakers out to a nice dinner with your significant other (unless you have a medical excuse, or perhaps your significant other also steps out in similar footwear)
- Have never experienced unrequited love
- Cannot appreciate what Kevin Bacon and Marisa Tomei bring to a movie, even in small supporting roles
Don’t put it in the queue.
p.s. I would like to apologize to my husband and guest blogger Ryan Venson for my horrible wife behavior; I frequently commented on the hotness that is Ryan Gosling is while watching the movie.